Are we really living?

Are we really living? or are we just trying to look like we are? This is more of a rant than a how to, but I’ve just been thinking about it lately… Thanks for Visiting ^__^

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I feel cursed… Do you feel cursed?

What if I told you that the feeling of being “CURSED” was all just a misunderstanding? Listen in and let me know what you think…   Thanks for Visiting ^__^

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Can differences in language change our OUTLOOK ON LIFE??

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Temptations Will Tempt You

Sometimes sarcasm is the best way to make a point. So, here’s a bit of sarcasm about the message of temptations that I wrote a few years ago after a night of festivities… ———————————- Temptation will try and tempt you, so don’t give into temptation. We will save you, you must follow our ways. Don’t be tempted by your own persuasion, or the temptations that move you in a certain direction. Our words are not tempting, so just follow what we say. Temptations’ ways are wrong because it’s tempting, our ways right because Temptations are wrong. Other Temptations will tempt you, persuade you, and make you feel that’s the best way to go, but know ours is right because we won’t tempt you. Don’t give into it, even if it feels right and it feels true, just listen to us because we’re better. Remember to think for yourself as you remember my words, we are right and the Temptation is wrong. Temptation will try to persuade and tempt you in many ways, so just follow us, even if it doesn’t feel right or totally untrue. We will guide you in the right direction, because the other way is the way of Temptation. Temptation is the Evil so don’t follow that path. Just follow our path because we’ll never tempt you. Temptation will only love you if you follow it’s ways. Don’t move in that direction because it’s tempting, and if you do, no one will love you, but don’t just move with us just because we’re not tempting, come with us because we know best. We will love you if you follow behind, the other way is Temptation’s path. It’s wrong because we’re right. Remember Temptations will try and tempt you, so do not give in even if it feels safe, just follow behind us because we know what’s best. By Jay Her Drunken night of May 6th 2011...

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Ambition is Sexy!

I think the title speaks for itself, but elaborate… here goes… I can’t find a more attractive thing about a person than ambition. True, sometimes you might find someone with hitler ambitions, and that’s when I get mixed emotions about this. Though, with harmful ambitions tossed out the window, there is something about someone with a drive in their life that just makes me want to hug them, squeeze them, and tell them, “The World is Your Rock and so go make some Pearls, You Oyster!” I don’t know if that’s gonna translate well from my head to this blog, but what the Hello! with their ambition, it just seems like they are able to move closer towards anything they put their mind to.   What’s so sexy and different about Ambition?? Come on now, beside those extreme hitler-esque ambitious individuals, what’s not to love about a man or a woman who is persistent, confident about their pursuit, is beaming with desire, is passionate about what where they’re headed, loves what’s taking them there, etc…   People with ambition just seems to naturally have this aura of AWESOMENESS around them that we can’t help but want to see them succeed. They are powerful people in their mind, not because they’re strong or what-not (maybe they are, but that’s not it) or can control people or instill fear in the hearts of those who defy them, but… BUT… but they are AWESOME and POWERFUL people because they can recognize how we all play a vital role in this world… how we can make things come together when we get together… how we are nothing alone, but can affect the world SO BEAUTIFULLY if we simply move in unison… and OH! and…   Oh, OH! wait for this one. AND they do it all, not with their own thoughts, but through orchestrating together how all of the unified thoughts that can be played in harmony… one voice at a time. Their ear is listening. So that we can speak our truths or sing our songs. And they help us see exactly where we can fit into the scheme of things, for when we do our truths and songs are spoken and sung that much louder TOGETHER!   Have I said, “AMBITION IS SEXY!” ? ? ? What if they run out of Ambition?? I feel that the only thing that can diminish someone’s ambition is destroying our spirit… and that is just SICK if someone wants to destroy our spirit!   Find the blog titled, “FRIGHT, FUN, FRIEND, FOREVER” and if they sound like a “FRIGHT” person, then they might not be a compatible person in your life.   Now if they’re giving us a little dose of reality to help us find a different route or a better thing, then why not consider it. Truly consider it, not just listen to it. See how it’s plausible, possible, and how it can fit into the scheme of things. Find the blog titled, “Our Passion Purpose and the Back-up Plan” and make sure our Ambition has all the components of being Our Passion, we have the Ability, and there are Opportunities and Needs for it around us.   We want to keep our spirits healthy and alive, but we also don’t want to judge a fish on it’s ability to swing from tree to tree. What if they’re simply delusional?? Then it’s not ambition anymore, Honey, it’s delusion. You define your own sense of delusion, but weigh it against what works and what doesn’t. Try it, try it a different way, try...

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The “ABSOLUTE” No-No

Have you ever realized that some of our most structured, thought out, and specific plans are the ones that fall through the cracks and never get done??? WHY IS THAT???? I asked… Have you ever tried to put a bundle of stick together using a steal band??? Well, I haven’t, so let me know if you have… but if I was to imagine that, it would go something like this. I would want to figure out how big around this bundle of stick is going to be and then I would have to build that steal band to fit just tight enough around the bundle so that it’s not too tight or too loose. Perfect!! In my mind, this bundle of stick would stay like this forever and ever and EVER and then we will live Happily Ever After, THE END! Right? What do you mean, “No!?” Let’s say, with my luck, it rains and the sticks I’ve gathered happen to be very easy in absorbing water… or the sticks dry up and then start to fall apart… or one of the sticks gets pulled out by a stick eating monster… Now what!??? Now it’s either too tight of a bundle of wet sticks, a withering away bundle, or a lose  bundling just waiting to slip out it’s steal band. Now what did I do wrong there? You probably have an answer for me. Here’s my real life example. I have been working on my health. Eating better, fun exercises, good social life, etc… I was content with working out at home and to my surprise with only about 30 minutes doing random things like jump roping, free weights, pilates, push ups, sit ups, etc… I was able to go from a size 36 to a size 33. I can honestly say I was proud of myself.  Then I decided that I might need to step it up and start working out at a gym too. And so that’s exactly what I did. My rationale, was there were a lot of equipments that I couldn’t afford financially nor space-wise at home. Within 3 weeks after I started my gym membership, I stopped working out at home and started working out just at the gym. I mean, they got everything I got going at home and more! This is THE PLACE to do what I needed to do, right? Am I wrong?? I didn’t think so. LOL. So my exercise equipments started moving into the corner of the house and my exercise time moved into jogging to the gym (10 minutes), working out at the gym (30 minutes), swimming at the gym (30 – 60 minutes), then jogging back (10 minutes). Now my schedule got a little flustered and I stopped going to the gym regularly but never considered starting back up the exercises that I was doing at home. Now once I’ve gotten the gym membership, my mindset shifted from Exercising when I can to simply just exercising at the gym. And when I wasn’t able to make it to the gym, I wasn’t even able to consciously think of doing the exercises that I have been doing for months prior at home. All that was going through my mind, was… well, I guess I’m just too busy to go to the gym, so let me just find something else to do. Well, that something else could have been a little 15 minute exercise at home, but nope, it was let’s watch an episode of this show, or cook something, or go online, etc… for whatever reason the thought...

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